It is not true that girls only like jerks.
There are many different resources available to you to tell you how to be nice to your girlfriend. Books, movies, television, the internet. But all you really need to know is…do not ever take her for granted. Always show your appreciation for having her in your life and tell her frequently that you love her.
Keep in mind that it is the little things that count the most. A foot rub for tired feet, a neck rub after a particularly stressful day, supper on the table if you are the first one home, a smile greeting her when you see her, helping with the laundry or dishes. You get the idea.
If things between you have cooled down considerably over the most recent past, try to figure out the reason for it. Whether or not you have done something wrong, it may be up to you to fix it. If you don’t, things will only get worse and she will eventually quit the relationship.
Maybe you have been spending too much time playing video games and not spending enough quality time with her. Put the video game away and ask her if there is anything she would like to do for the evening. Then, whether you want to do it or not, go do it. Putting her first for a change will make her feel important in your life and not like she is playing second fiddle to your video game habit.
If you really do not have a clue as to how to be nice to your girlfriend then it is time to get schooled or else get taught a very important lesson in life by your girlfriend. That is, she won’t be your girlfriend for very long.
A woman wants the most important man in her life to be attentive, helpful, cuddly, snuggly, loving, and respectful. seems like a lot to try to keep tabs on, but it really isn’t. Like I said it is the little things that count. For example, if the two of you are watching TV together, sit and cuddle on the couch. Cover up with a blanket.
If she should happen to not feel well, fix her some soup and buy her a magazine she would like to read while she is recuperating.
Try to tell the difference between when she is just venting about a situation and when she really does want you to fix the problem she is having. If you can’t tell, then ask her, she will let you know in no uncertain terms which one it is. If you can fix it, then do. If you can’t then don’t even try but tell her you don’t know how, do not just ignore the situation. And don’t be embarrassed, she already knows you are not perfect.
Obviously, these suggestions are not all the things you could learn regarding how to be nice to your girlfriend but they will point you in the right direction and maybe help you see things in a different light.
How To Be Romantic With Your Girlfriend
Do you need a refresher course on how to be romantic with your girlfriend? Well, then, listen up. I know that in the beginning of the relationship everything seemed to come so easily. Everything was candlelight and roses and you could do no wrong in her eyes.
How did it all change so quickly? You do not have a clue do you? Well, somewhere along the line the romance stopped and life got in the way. The candlelight turned into a 100 watt bulb in the ceiling and the roses shriveled up and died.
Now, if you should happen to remember to send her flowers, she is going to think you have some ulterior motive or you have done something you need to apologize for. I know you do not believe that but trust me, I am right. This bouquet of flowers will not help you one teensy tiny little bit. She will be too suspicious to take them for what they were intended, a romantic gesture.
If you do not want her to be suspicious, take this how to be romantic with your girlfriend advice to heart. If you want to send her flowers do not send them to her work place, especially if she works with a lot of other women. The others will plant the seed of doubt and she will probably be angry with you by the time she gets home.
So, have them waiting on the table for her along with the nice little dinner you prepared, or if you can’t cook, at least bought with her in mind. Turn off that 100 watt bulb in the ceiling, light those candles again, have romantic music playing softly in the background and a nice bottle of wine opened and breathing.
Treat her like a queen when she gets home. Kiss her ever so softly on the lips to greet her then, take her coat and briefcase and put them away for her. Sit her in a chair and remove her shoes, giving each one of her feet a little rubdown with the promise of more later. Tell her to go get freshened up and have the new lingerie you bought her hanging in the bathroom for her to put on.
When she is ready, pull her chair out for her at the table and serve her dinner. Make conversation by asking how her day was, and listen as she tells you all about it. Even if you do not understand what she is talking about. Always listen. Make eye contact and touch her hand or arm during dinner. Tell her how beautiful you think she is and always will be in your eyes.
After dinner lead her to the sofa, bringing along the rest of the bottle of wine and glasses to the living room and fulfill the promise of a complete foot rub, including toes, ankles, and calves. She will undoubtedly be putty in your hands at this point and only now can you relax a little and be confident that you know how to be romantic with your girlfriend.
How To Be Sweet To Your Girlfriend
When you want to learn how to be sweet to your girlfriend, just listen to and follow your heart. Bring her flowers, or candy, or buy a card, or write a love note. Keep in mind though, if she thinks she’s fat or is trying to lose weight, rethink the candy. She will think you are an insensitive jerk and it will only get you into trouble.
If you try the other three up there listed in the first paragraph, or come up with something else on your own, she will think that you are all the sweet she will ever need.
Try some things like cooking her dinner or suggesting you two go for a walk together. If you hold hands when you go someplace she will think that is sweet, too. Talk to her about things she is interested in or ask her about things she would like to try and hasn’t yet, then do your best to make them happen for her. Spoil her a little bit every now and then.
Plan a romantic getaway for just the two of you. Make all the arrangements and surprise her with it. A nice warm beach for an extended weekend would probably do the trick. Or maybe a ski weekend where you could spend your days on the slopes and your nights in front of a roaring fire with a couple of nice glasses of wine.
Keep in mind that if you want to know how to be sweet to your girlfriend, it’s the small things that make a big difference. Having the coffee ready just the way she likes it when she gets out of the shower or something as simple as taking the time to lower the toilet seat every time you leave the bathroom. It may not seem like a big deal to you but she will think it is a sweet thing to do.
At this point, you may be thinking, what is in all this for me. Well, if you do any of these things for her she will recognize them for what they are and respond in kind and do sweet things for you, too. Think of it as a ‘win-win’ situation.
Do not, however, do sweet things just to try to get a reward and be an insensitive jerk the rest of the time. She is not stupid and will see through this and eventually tire of the games and kick you to the curb. Be sweet and mean it, otherwise you will find yourself in search of a new girlfriend.
If your relationship with your girlfriend stands on solid ground being sweet to her will only strengthen it but if your relationship is a little rocky then being sweet can and will save it from being destroyed.
There is no limit to the sweet things that you can do to keep your girlfriend happy. The main things to remember are, treat her with dignity and respect, never ridicule or belittle her. She is just as important to the relationship as you are. Learn how to be sweet to your girlfriend and she will be sweet to you. And if she doesn’t, well, then there is always a jerk to her to.