Sexuality: Spicing Up Your Sex Life

Even though you may be passionately in love with your partner, there will usually come a time when sex becomes a bit dull or routine. If all relationships were the same as they are in those bodice ripper novels, then couples would always be ready to enjoy a spontaneous and hot encounter every time they had sex. Reality, however, just doesn’t seem to work that way except on very rare exceptions.
Now, you probably already have some special things that you like to try with your partner. These most likely work quite well for the two of you most of the time. However, there are some times that you would just like for things to be ultra-exciting to the point that you DO feel the earth move under your feet. Believe it or not, there ARE ways to make that happen.
Find some great toys or sensual objects. There’s nothing like some amazing things to add a bit of kick to your physical expressions of love. Even though most people assume that things refer to vibrators only used by women, they couldn’t be more wrong. You should spend some time researching the wide array of things available to everyone, especially couples. Maybe even both of you can sit down and choose some things that look interesting.
Try out some role playing. This can be a lot of fun whether or not you decide to use costumes. It doesn’t have to be those old Nurse and Patient or Police Woman and Speeder fantasies, either. You can get creative and decide what gets you the hottest. Remember, fantasies can be ANYTHING you want. It’s not like you’re breaking any laws for real.
Get away together. This is very important. Bribe friends or relatives if you need a baby sitter. All couples need that special quality time away from everything. This is when you can really give in to all of those urges such as walking around in the nude and taking sexy showers together. Just being able to relax together can go a long way to making you feel sexier with each other.
Experiment with some new sex positions. This is one area where couples tend to be too comfortable about so they never try anything different. When you want to add a little extra zing to things in the bedroom, talk to your partner about other positions you would like to try. Better yet, SHOW him.
Try a change of scenery. When you’re finally alone for the night, lock the doors, turn off the lights, or have some color lights, and put your phones off. Then head into a different room to play. It’s not a rule that sex can only happen in the bedroom. You can just as easily try it out in the living-room, bathroom, kitchen counters or even on the washing machine or the balcony. What the heck. Once you start experimenting, you’ll be amazed at the endless possibilities.
Now, that you’ve got a few ideas on how to get those home fires burning a bit hotter than you’ve ever known them to be.