Dating: Older Women Dating Younger Men

I’m not really sure what the big fuss is about older women dating younger men. We all know that men have been dating younger women since the dawn of time. And, assuming that younger is really better, why should the guys have all the fun!
I’m not sure if it’s true or not but I heard that there are two very different motivations between men dating someone younger and older women dating younger men. The theory is that men do it mostly for ego and the women do it mostly to have someone who can keep up with them.
We all know that women hit their sexual prime later in life than men do. For that reason, it seems like there really could be a biological reason that women like to date younger guys.
Of course, if you are such a woman, you better bring your “A” game. And I’m not talking about your bedroom game either. I’m referring to your self confidence. If you are overly insecure this type of relationship may be trouble.
If you are dating a younger guy who is good looking, he will get a lot of other female attention. If you are not really confidant in yourself and the qualities and attributes that you bring to the relationship, you are very likely to feel overwhelmed and insecure.
Feeling that way will very likely translate into acting needy, clingy and suspicious. All of those things combined could very quickly mean the end of your relationship.
Few guys are going to want to deal with that kind of drama for any period of time. So, when I say bring your “A” game, that is what I’m talking about.
Make sure you are confidant enough in yourself to believe that he is just as lucky to have you as you are to have him.
There are many advantages to dating a younger guy, beyond just the fact that he is young and probably in great shape.
I have a friend who is only a few years younger than her husband, but she is finding that even with that small difference in their ages (and the fact that he never took care of himself) he is not able to keep up with her and it is beginning to become a problem.
She likes to stay active and spend time outdoors but has curtailed many of these things she loves because he won’t go with her. Now, she’s beginning to feel very depressed and alone.
It is going to continue to cause more stress on her marriage. So, dating a younger guy may be a great way for you to make sure that you don’t have to worry about “leaving” your guy behind as you get older.
Of course, you may just be looking for someone to have some fun times with so the long term benefits may not matter to you.
Older women dating younger men has a lot of advantages and if it is what you are interested in there are a lot of guys who would love to meet you.

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